All too often I have heard women say that there are not enough good men out there. Some have said that all of the good men are either married or in committed relationships. However, I do believe that there are still good men that are out there but it just may not be "your" man. Rather than walking the man down the aisle before you ever obtain his first name, why not ask yourself what makes a good man simply irresistible? If you have no idea what makes a man good, then think of those qualities within a man that has you saying "Um, I want to learn more about him" or "wow, he really seems like he is worth getting to know as a friend." Do not take for granted the good men that surround you. Here are some of my personal opinions of what makes a good man simply irresistible.
- A good man is simply irresistible when he takes time out to spend with his child (ren) while giving his wife or significant other time for herself without having been asked.
- A good man is simply irresistible when he comes home from work and has dinner ready and waiting for his lady.
- A good man is simply irresistible when he is able to show emotions when he watches a movie classified as a "chick" flick.
- A good man is simply irresistible when he lets his woman know when finances are tight and they work on making their finances better without him depending on his mother to bail him out.
- A good man is simply irresistible when he shows his son how to treat a lady on a date and his daughter how she should be treated as a lady when with a man.
- A good man is simply irresistible when he realizes and appreciates the fact that he has a woman home that loves and honors his manhood without comparing himself to his boys.
- A good man is simply irresistible when he is able to connect with his spirit guide and understand that he does not have to be a super hero for the whole world only for his woman and his child (ren).
- A good man is simply irresistible when he says that he is going to do something and follows through without his woman "nagging" him.
- A good man is simply irresistible when he loves his woman like no other man can or would. He does not have to physically hurt her to show his love. He just loves her for who she is and not what he wants her to be.
- A good man is simply irresistible when he is willing to stay home from work (yes, I am talking about those stay at home dads who rarely get credit for raising their children) taking care of the children while his wife earns money for the family.
- A good man is simply irresistible when he loves himself for who he is and not what his money, car, job, friends etc. believes he should be. He is comfortable in his own skin.
Today I would like to pay homage to all of the good men who continue to live in our society. There are many who are married and are in committed relationships. Yet there are others who are simply waiting for their lady to arrive and appreciate them for who they are and not how their bank account defines their worth. So if you know of any good men around you tell them thank you for being the man they are and let them know how much you appreciate them. Gentlemen, if you know of a man who could be a good man but he chooses not to then give him a little nudge in the right direction as there are still some ladies out here who are patiently waiting for a few good men.
April Lisbon-Peoples is a growth and development coach who enjoys inspiring her clients to find their life's purpose through becoming visionaries. She the founder and CEO of Running Your Race, a coaching practice designed for individuals who are ready to awaken their visions and create their destiny. April also has a strong desire to help mothers find the balance between work and family. Additionally, she also works as a school psychologist in NV.
April has written various articles focusing on elevating and motivating people as they aim towards reaching their highest potential. She aspires to help her clients live their dreams while gaining and maintaining a level of healthy success. So if you are ready to fly like the eagles and see your vision come to past, then visit her at [http://www.creatingmyvision.com] or e-mail her at creatingvision@gmail.com